suddenly i have such thinking.

isit wrong to set a certain criteria for ur ideal partner?

i mean its nt a matter of going for looks, bt u will at least nd to find someone tat u are comfortable with in terms of looks rite?. Of cos the prs's character and the feelings contribute alot to it.

Let's quote an example.

U noe tat gal/guy has a crush on you. Assume tat she/he is generally a nice prs and you noe she/he likes you. But you claim tat you have no feelings for her.

Here's de question. What makes you tink you have no feelings for her? If you don go for looks, u go for characters ..den why is it tat you still cant accept her when she/he is so nice to you and others as well.?

What i want to say is..everybody..or most ppl hav subconsciously set a criteria in terms of looks for their partner. And the looks is NOT on whether he is handsome, average or ugly. Is on the type of looks. ermm u all understand ma? for example, some ppl prefer those mature type, some prefer bad boy type, some prefer bookworm type and many many types. No nd to choose only 1 type la..is like what types u can accept and cannot accept.

So, if only you can accept the looks of that person, you will try to step a step forward then. So after that if you find that you cant accept that prs character, den remain frens le lor~ No? don agree?

Looks, at initial stage hold a large percentage maybe 50% character 50%. 50: 50 is still at the uncertain stage.

After u can accept the type he is, den looks are no longer impt. probably 10% and character 90%. I wont include chemistry in cos i tink tat if you don like his/her looks/character, and he/she dont like yours, there will be no chemistry.

Ok i believe there are some ppl who are touched by the actions of the partner and then falling in love with them AFTER they are touched by them. BUT there are also times where tat gal/guy has done a lot for you..and you are touched..bt no..u are still nt falling for them. Why? Have you asked yourself that ? why u say u dont have that feeling for her/him? Most will say no feel even though they are touched by their actions. But wad caused that NO FEEL????

BECAUSE HER/HIS LOOKS DONT Fall UNDER YOUR CRITERIA ! she/he may not be ugly, probably average or above average, but you cant accept her/him because you SUBCONSCIOUSLY have a/ a few preferred type(s) in mind !

So in conclusion, I just want to voice out my view that there is nothing wrong setting a criteria on looks. AND IT IS NT THAT WE WANT TO SET THAT CRITERIA. IS THAT TIS IS WAD WE PREFERRED IN MIND. Mind and heart are linked. Heart will follow what mind tink.

And Looks doesnt mean that he/she need to be good looking. It is the types we go for.

Lastly, Everyone has a criteria in terms of looks (types) choosing their partner, Don deny. If you say No, I will any grab a GENARALLY NICE person and make sure you date him/her ! haha

So is like I like tis type, u dont like. U like tis type, I dont like.

To me, no matter how good looking he is, if he is not the type i like, I wont like. And looks become so insignificant to me if i have fallen for that prs whether he has changed alot or nt, probably fatter? haha.

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